Astrology of Love: An Alternative Way to See Which Kind of People We Most Likely Attracted To

In astrology reading, most of the time, we found out our clients always asked about their love life. Be it they still single or already married. And most of the time, in many astrology articles, we tend to simplify from our sun sign zodiac, then look up at zodiac sign that becomes ‘angles’ from our sun sign. Angles in this case mean the 4th, 7th, or 10th sign from our sun sign

In astrology reading, most of the time, we found out our clients always asked about their love life. Be it they still single or already married.

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And most of the time, in many astrology articles, we tend to simplify from our sun sign zodiac, then look up at zodiac sign that becomes ‘angles’ from our sun sign. Angles in this case mean the 4th, 7th, or 10th sign from our sun sign.

For example, if your sun sign is Aries, then any people with Cancer, Libra, or Capricorn, will likely become your soulmate or lover or whatever term we want to use. Another example, if your sun sign is in Aquarius, then any people with Taurus, Leo, or Scorpio will likely become your lover.

In this article, I’ll try to offer an alternative way to read which kind of people we’ll likely attract by looking at our natal chart.

Brief Information About House and Zodiac in Astrology

In case you, a reader, are still new to astrology, let me have a brief explanation about house and zodiac in an astrology chart. In every astrology chart, we see a circular chart divided into  12 parts that are sometimes equal and sometimes unequal part, depending on the system you use. But most of the time, there’s a number from one to twelve near the middle inner circle, counting counter-clockwise. That’s what we called “house”: a roughly 1/12 slice of pie that has a number from 1 to 12.

And when we see an astrologer say like “2nd house in Libra”, it means that the 2nd house cusps are in Libra sign. House cusps for each house are lines drawn BEFORE the house number. For example, we can look at this picture.

House Cusps Illustration

As we see in this illustration, 1st house cusps is in Libra, 6th house cusps is in Pisces, and 11th house cusps is in Leo. Therefore, this chart has 1st house in Libra, 6th house in Pisces, and 11th house in Leo.

How to See Our Love Pattern? Look at the 5th and 7th House.

If you google the meaning of 5th house, we’ll find some topics related to creativity, children, our “output”, something we’d like to do, and also love affairs. When we google the meaning of 7th house, we’ll see anything related to partnership: business one or love one (husband/wife), as long as partners in this context are bound by some kind of legal term.

But to make it more simple, we can look at 5th house as…

The information where we tend to attract people that want to have some short-term or not contract-binding relationship with you. 

For example, casual dating, partner for living together, and any kind of open relationship.

And for 7th house…

The information where we tend to attract people that want to have some commitment or contract-binding relationship with you.

Of course, if we want to see which kind of people we attract as spouses, we look at the 7th house.

Why I’m using 2 house dynamics as part of our analysis?

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The first one is, that we can see the zodiac in each house as an archetype for our expectations, habit, and our attitude toward anything related to that house. It also works two ways about what kind of people we’d likely attract or pull into our lives. Not in the zodiacal sun-sign sense, but more on attitude and way of thinking.

So, if our house 5 is in Libra, it means we tend to fill the void in our hearts by searching for somebody to fill it. Most likely, in the short-term relationship sense (5th house theme), we tend to search for anyone to fill as our partner because we don’t want to be alone at all costs for love relationship, at least in the short-term.

But at the same time, we also attract someone who also searches for balance, not only in work life but also in relationships. We may attract someone that seems indecisive but actually because he/she tries to come up with the best solution to accommodate everybody’s needs/ agenda.

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The 2nd reason is, that our way of thinking and attitude is changing. We think differently from when we search for a partner just for a fling for the first time, compared to when we thought our partner is the one we live with for the rest of our lives.

For example, when we just date someone, we want to spend a lot of time together with our girl/boyfriend. We want to chat a lot from the morning we wake up until before we go to sleep. But when we already living together as a family, most of them didn’t do that anymore, even talking romantically until fell asleep every day. Chances are, from just talking in the morning and at night, now become activity-oriented like preparing breakfast or dinner together and talking about any issue on the news as part of breakfast/ dinner routine.

It’s also shown on our birth chart. For example, when our 5th house is in Libra, then our 7th house is in Sagittarius. It might be from something as simple as filling the void in our heart when we got a boy/girlfriend, now our attitude is changing into becoming more adventurous side when we already have a spouse, just like Sagittarius on 7th house.

Any help to see those love patterns?

Yes, I’ll help you with some brief interpretation. Here’s the table of zodiacs along with the interpretation. All you need to do is just look at which 5th house and 7th house you’re into and see this table.

Of course, for a more detailed relationship interpretation pattern, you still need to consult your astrologer. Especially if you found some problem and want some solution to overcome the relationship challenge.

ZodiacMy likely way of thoughtThe person I likely ‘attract’ to
AriesHigh energy and motivation to start a relationship, most likely start the relationship first then think about the long-term later.A high-spirited person, a romantic one, also tends to attract a competitive person.
TaurusMore traditional, have strong ground rules about which person can have a relationship with me. Also more realistic-materialistic approach view of relationships.Have a good background or career. Likely to attract a consistent and patient person.
GeminiLike to see some alternatives before deciding the one. Like a smart person.Talkative, sometimes unfocused person, his/ her usual attitude towards friend/ new person, most likely mistaken as flirting.
CancerOther factors don’t really matter as long as I’m comfortable besides that person.Home / family-oriented person. Think a lot about his/her parent, and will do everything for his/ her family.
LeoComfortable almost with any person, as long as they also support me and don’t openly oppose me. a celebrity vibe kind of people, people with a good reputation and seen by lots of people.
VirgoSomehow, I’m more focused on my social circle than myself. And unfortunately, my partner is part of me. A friend-oriented and detailed person. Needs to be reminded about how to treat partner/ lover.
LibraLooking for a lover/ partner to fill the void in my heart. I can move on from a toxic relationship, as long as a new one already stands in front of me.A person who looks indecisive on the outside but searches for a harmonious way on the inside.
ScorpioI tend to look ‘too detailed’ on my partner. Any information, however small and trivial, is important to me. And I hope they understand my “passion” for my partner.Likely to attract possessive people, can see the deepest secret in people. Also, high chance that I’m attracting people who’d love to have sex.
SagittariusFreedom to live and freedom to love. Have a good and open possibility about any kind of love. Tend to get bored easily if no variation in the relationship.Adventurous people, more on open relationship and doesn’t like strict commitment.
CapricornI think love needs to be established step by step. In the proper way, not an instantaneous sudden spark kind of way like everybody’s doing usually. Not a romantic person and more unto love to work personality. Tend to express love in a realistic and concrete act than sweet talk.
AquariusThe relationship needs to be different and unorthodox. Open to any possibilities and willing to go against the current relationship. An eccentric and unique person, sometimes hard to understand. Also, tend to against the standard norm.
PiscesHave a tendency toward idealized relationships. I know it’s hard to achieve that kind of ideal relationship, but still worth trying. Sometimes, I have difficulties separating between a dream and a more realistic one. A dreamer, visionary person. Sometimes tend to self-sacrifice for the sake of others. Have a soft heart and high intuition.
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Things To Consider Before Reading Someone’s Career With Astrology

Most astrologers, when reading clients’ careers, they usually look at the 10th house, which zodiac the 10th house in, and interpret the suitable career for them based on the zodiac and planets (if any) on that house. In practice, it isn’t that simple. And in this article, I’ll share some insight about career reading.

Most astrologers, when reading clients’ careers, they usually look at the 10th house, which zodiac the 10th house in, and interpret the suitable career for them based on the zodiac and planets (if any) on that house.

In practice, it isn’t that simple. And in this article, I’ll share some insight about career reading.

What is a Career Anyway?

According to the Oxford language definition, a career is an occupation undertaken for a significant period of a person’s life and with opportunities for progress.

It has 2 important things: the occupation for a significant period of a person’s life and ALSO opportunities for progress. The problem with that definition is, that’s very different from what ‘usual people’ perceive about a career. In reality, people perceive a career as…

An occupation that they love to do and leads to opportunities for gaining a relatively lot of money by investing their time and effort.

So, when a client asks me “Which career suits me?”, usually the real meaning of the question is, “Which job that I’d love to do and potentially leads to a lot of money?” And that’s the tricky part when we read their birth chart. In some cases, their ‘big money’ opportunity does not come from their so-called career.

So, what should we do when a client wants to tell us about their career? Here’s some step to consider before reading about their career.

1st Step: Knowing The House Placement That ‘Related’ to Career

As I’ve said before, most astrologers will read the client’s 10th house for a career and that’s what we usually do. But before jumping into that, from my own experience (and other astrologers), it’s not always the 10th house.

Yes, the 10th house in astrology, is related to career, for more precise, related to any job activities that you’d likely be passionate about. For example, if your 10th house is in Pisces, you’d likely have a passion for art, any practice related to ease of mind/ mindfulness therapy, psychology, or anything related to selfless social service.

But there’s another house which we need to consider: the 6th house. In traditional astrology, it is related to the house of slavery and is considered a bad house. But in the modern sense, this house is more related to everyday service, contribution, or everyday job. The difference with the 10th house is, while the 10th house is a kind of job that you have passion, the 6th house is an everyday job that you’d likely not have passion in there. But still decided to do that kind of job for money or for your own well-being.

Another consideration besides the 10th and 6th house is the 2nd house and 11th house. 2nd house is related to “in which sector, archetypally you’d likely gain more money?”. While 11th house is related to “Which sector, archetypally you’d likely gains -windfall- type of money?”.

After we know, there is actually another 2 house to consider besides the regular 6th and 10th house, then we need to see…

Step 2: Are There Any Planets in the 2nd, 6th, 10th, and 11th house? How they are related to each other by aspect and rulership?

This becomes a tricky part. For example, if we find the client’s planet in the 2nd house has an aspect to some planet in the 10th house, then we can safely say that his passion has the potential to generate money.

For example…

Native Chart

From this chart, we can see the native’s 10th house in Capricorn, a career that is related to the structure and reputation of the company. With Uranus and Neptune in the 10th house, we can see that her passion might be a career with a structured way to build a reputation, related to art, sound, dream (Neptune), and technology (Uranus). It turns out, she is a voice-over actress she’s passionate there.

At the same time, her MC – Neptune – Uranus all trine to her South Node in Taurus, 2nd house. Venus is also located in her 2nd house. 2nd house is the house of material possession, Taurus is a sign of something traditional and materialistic at the same time, while South Node signifies her -inborn talent-. Venus as benefict planet also located in her 2nd house, which signifies beauty, love, and aesthetics.

When she is just a voice actress, she got a relatively good job with a relatively moderate amount of payment. But when she tries to do some singing and cover song in her spare time, with a traditional vibe as her main theme and selling point (Taurus), then somehow, she gets more payment in her career as a voice actress even though between voice actress and traditional singer are not directly related.

In another case, if we find a planet (or planet ruler) in the client’s 2nd house aspecting the planet in the 6th house, while his 10th house isn’t related to the 2nd house, then we can analyze that his routine work that doesn’t meet his passion, actually generates more money than a career based on his passion.

Here’s an example chart…

Harry Duke of Sussex Chart

This becomes a somewhat extreme example. Aquarius in the 2nd house is ruled by Saturn and Uranus. His Saturn on the 11th house has opposition to his moon on the 5th house in Taurus. Which represents his ‘job’ that generates money is related to social service (11th house) that motivates people (Scorpio) and his creative affair (5th house) and his lover (moon). At the same time, Uranus in Sagittarius 12th House opposes Chiron in Gemini 6th House. We can make another suggestion that his job that generates money is also related to his unorthodox and revolutionary (Uranus) way of thinking (12th house) to explore something new (Sagittarius). That kind of unorthodox thinking can help him to heal from his trauma (Chiron) related to his everyday work (6th house) by becoming the speaker or motivator (Gemini) for his everyday environment.

At the same time, his passion, which is the 10th house in Libra and also has Venus in there (Venus is Libra ruler) is to become a celebrity (Libra and Venus) on his own. But his Venus only trine mars. No degree-based aspect between Venus and Saturn or Uranus. So we can analyze, if he follows his passion while sacrificing his everyday work, he’ll likely get less money than before.

And I think, objectively, since Prince Harry has left royals (signifies his daily work), he got less and less money than before. He needs to work very hard to get money enough for his family’s luxurious lifestyle even though he does what is he passionate about.

Move on to another condition…

If we find a planet in the 6th house that has an aspect to a planet in the 10th house, we can analyze that the client has a chance to find daily work that related to his passion. Especially if we combine the archetype qualities of the zodiac in the 6th and 10th houses. But if either planet in the 6th or 10th house has an aspect to a planet in the 2nd house, then we can analyze that his/ her career/ job will generate a relatively moderate amount of money.

And if this is the case, then there’ll be a 99% chance our client will ask, “Which job can I get more money for?”. And this is where it becomes interesting…

Step 3: Look for the most benefict planet in the client’s chart.

In Hellenistic astrology, we need to see whether the client’s chart is a day chart or a night chart. The most benefict planet for a daily chart is Jupiter while for a night chart is Venus.

Look where the most benefict planet is located. Analyze the house and its zodiac, and we will know which kind of jobs most likely get him more money.

And last, there’s a kind of special condition…

Extra Step: If Pluto is Conjunct to either Venus or Jupiter, It’s very recommended to pursue a career related to their location.

One of the keywords for Pluto, archetypally, besides transformation, is to make planet energies increase more extreme, especially if those planets conjunct Pluto.

So, if either Venus or Jupiter conjunct Pluto, it means that the quality of that planet is extremely increasing. And if you found that configuration in the client’s chart, I’ll recommend the client to pursue the career related to conjunction’s position and zodiac.

For example, here’s the chart of Bill Gates.

Bill Gates Chart

We see there’s a conjunction between Jupiter and Pluto in the 2nd house in Leo. And we can analyze that he has a high potential to get lots of money by making his ide known to the public (Leo sign) and those ideas need to be related to something that can be acquired/ buy easily by common people (2nd house signification). Plus, with Uranus as a technological revolution planet also in the 2nd house of Leo, he needs to make some innovation/ revolution related to technology.

We know he’s famous and extremely rich because of his Microsoft Company. A software company that has a mission to make Windows OS become widely used by people who use computers for any kind of activities.

Warren Buffet Chart

Although not exact conjunct, Warren Buffet has near conjunct between Pluto and Jupiter, in Cancer, 8th house. As we know that the 8th house is a house of native + other people’s money or house of investment, then we can analyze that he’ll have a high potential to gain more money if he chooses a career related to investigation.

And as we know, He’s extremely rich because of his intuition about investment. He’s become the 4th wealthiest man with a career as American Investor with his company, Berkshire Hathaway.

Closing Remark

Reading career dynamics in astrology isn’t as simple as looking at the client’s 10 houses. Most of the time, although clients usually ask “Which career that suitable for me?”, most of the time, they ask “Which job that generates the highest possible income for me?”. We need to find what they really want to ask and interpret their chart accordingly.

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