Astrology of Love: An Alternative Way to See Which Kind of People We Most Likely Attracted To

In astrology reading, most of the time, we found out our clients always asked about their love life. Be it they still single or already married.

And most of the time, in many astrology articles, we tend to simplify from our sun sign zodiac, then look up at zodiac sign that becomes ‘angles’ from our sun sign. Angles in this case mean the 4th, 7th, or 10th sign from our sun sign.

For example, if your sun sign is Aries, then any people with Cancer, Libra, or Capricorn, will likely become your soulmate or lover or whatever term we want to use. Another example, if your sun sign is in Aquarius, then any people with Taurus, Leo, or Scorpio will likely become your lover.

In this article, I’ll try to offer an alternative way to read which kind of people we’ll likely attract by looking at our natal chart.

Brief Information About House and Zodiac in Astrology

In case you, a reader, are still new to astrology, let me have a brief explanation about house and zodiac in an astrology chart. In every astrology chart, we see a circular chart divided into  12 parts that are sometimes equal and sometimes unequal part, depending on the system you use. But most of the time, there’s a number from one to twelve near the middle inner circle, counting counter-clockwise. That’s what we called “house”: a roughly 1/12 slice of pie that has a number from 1 to 12.

And when we see an astrologer say like “2nd house in Libra”, it means that the 2nd house cusps are in Libra sign. House cusps for each house are lines drawn BEFORE the house number. For example, we can look at this picture.

As we see in this illustration, 1st house cusps is in Libra, 6th house cusps is in Pisces, and 11th house cusps is in Leo. Therefore, this chart has 1st house in Libra, 6th house in Pisces, and 11th house in Leo.

How to See Our Love Pattern? Look at the 5th and 7th House.

If you google the meaning of 5th house, we’ll find some topics related to creativity, children, our “output”, something we’d like to do, and also love affairs. When we google the meaning of 7th house, we’ll see anything related to partnership: business one or love one (husband/wife), as long as partners in this context are bound by some kind of legal term.

But to make it more simple, we can look at 5th house as…

The information where we tend to attract people that want to have some short-term or not contract-binding relationship with you. 

For example, casual dating, partner for living together, and any kind of open relationship.

And for 7th house…

The information where we tend to attract people that want to have some commitment or contract-binding relationship with you.

Of course, if we want to see which kind of people we attract as spouses, we look at the 7th house.

Why I’m using 2 house dynamics as part of our analysis?

The first one is, that we can see the zodiac in each house as an archetype for our expectations, habit, and our attitude toward anything related to that house. It also works two ways about what kind of people we’d likely attract or pull into our lives. Not in the zodiacal sun-sign sense, but more on attitude and way of thinking.

So, if our house 5 is in Libra, it means we tend to fill the void in our hearts by searching for somebody to fill it. Most likely, in the short-term relationship sense (5th house theme), we tend to search for anyone to fill as our partner because we don’t want to be alone at all costs for love relationship, at least in the short-term.

But at the same time, we also attract someone who also searches for balance, not only in work life but also in relationships. We may attract someone that seems indecisive but actually because he/she tries to come up with the best solution to accommodate everybody’s needs/ agenda.

The 2nd reason is, that our way of thinking and attitude is changing. We think differently from when we search for a partner just for a fling for the first time, compared to when we thought our partner is the one we live with for the rest of our lives.

For example, when we just date someone, we want to spend a lot of time together with our girl/boyfriend. We want to chat a lot from the morning we wake up until before we go to sleep. But when we already living together as a family, most of them didn’t do that anymore, even talking romantically until fell asleep every day. Chances are, from just talking in the morning and at night, now become activity-oriented like preparing breakfast or dinner together and talking about any issue on the news as part of breakfast/ dinner routine.

It’s also shown on our birth chart. For example, when our 5th house is in Libra, then our 7th house is in Sagittarius. It might be from something as simple as filling the void in our heart when we got a boy/girlfriend, now our attitude is changing into becoming more adventurous side when we already have a spouse, just like Sagittarius on 7th house.

Any help to see those love patterns?

Yes, I’ll help you with some brief interpretation. Here’s the table of zodiacs along with the interpretation. All you need to do is just look at which 5th house and 7th house you’re into and see this table.

Of course, for a more detailed relationship interpretation pattern, you still need to consult your astrologer. Especially if you found some problem and want some solution to overcome the relationship challenge.

Zodiac	My likely way of thought	The person I likely ‘attract’ to
Aries	High energy and motivation to start a relationship, most likely start the relationship first then think about the long-term later.	A high-spirited person, a romantic one, also tends to attract a competitive person.
Taurus	More traditional, have strong ground rules about which person can have a relationship with me. Also more realistic-materialistic approach view of relationships.	Have a good background or career. Likely to attract a consistent and patient person.
Gemini	Like to see some alternatives before deciding the one. Like a smart person.	Talkative, sometimes unfocused person, his/ her usual attitude towards friend/ new person, most likely mistaken as flirting.
Cancer	Other factors don’t really matter as long as I’m comfortable besides that person.	Home / family-oriented person. Think a lot about his/her parent, and will do everything for his/ her family.
Leo	Comfortable almost with any person, as long as they also support me and don’t openly oppose me.	a celebrity vibe kind of people, people with a good reputation and seen by lots of people.
Virgo	Somehow, I’m more focused on my social circle than myself. And unfortunately, my partner is part of me.	A friend-oriented and detailed person. Needs to be reminded about how to treat partner/ lover.
Libra	Looking for a lover/ partner to fill the void in my heart. I can move on from a toxic relationship, as long as a new one already stands in front of me.	A person who looks indecisive on the outside but searches for a harmonious way on the inside.
Scorpio	I tend to look ‘too detailed’ on my partner. Any information, however small and trivial, is important to me. And I hope they understand my “passion” for my partner.	Likely to attract possessive people, can see the deepest secret in people. Also, high chance that I’m attracting people who’d love to have sex.
Sagittarius	Freedom to live and freedom to love. Have a good and open possibility about any kind of love. Tend to get bored easily if no variation in the relationship.	Adventurous people, more on open relationship and doesn’t like strict commitment.
Capricorn	I think love needs to be established step by step. In the proper way, not an instantaneous sudden spark kind of way like everybody’s doing usually.	Not a romantic person and more unto love to work personality. Tend to express love in a realistic and concrete act than sweet talk.
Aquarius	The relationship needs to be different and unorthodox. Open to any possibilities and willing to go against the current relationship.	An eccentric and unique person, sometimes hard to understand. Also, tend to against the standard norm.
Pisces	Have a tendency toward idealized relationships. I know it’s hard to achieve that kind of ideal relationship, but still worth trying. Sometimes, I have difficulties separating between a dream and a more realistic one.	A dreamer, visionary person. Sometimes tend to self-sacrifice for the sake of others. Have a soft heart and high intuition.

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